Wednesday, April 1, 2009

How to Beg Off a Future Date

"By the time a man is wise enough to watch his step, he's too old to go anywhere."
Billy Crystal

In the book I (somewhat) dealt with the dilema of dealing with meeting a new person and deciding that the chemistry just wasn't there. The problem was enhanced by the fact that the meeting was enjoyable and both had a good time.

Some women suggested that both should process the "no go" of the moment and call it quits then and there. I lacked the courage to do just that and stated that we should "keep in touch" and leave it at that. Then, just let the correspondence dwindle to nothing.

I met a lady recently online who told me a story. She mentioned dating a guy twice and then received this note: "It was a pleasure meeting you, but I didn't feel that certain sizzle that we would both want in a match."

She claimed to not feel rejected and appreciated his honesty. Sounds good to me.

For more info, order: Senior Dating and Sex, http//seniordatingandsex.com/Senior.pdf


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